Some People...

Some people are just plain rude. They want to be respected but do not want to respect other people at all. Contoh, seorang budak, not even twelve years old yet, post a picture of her in facebook. Then suddenly 'this' type of people commented something negative, and what do you expect for the other party to reply?


Kuatkan hati ku

Hari ni, pagi tadi, bukanlah permulaan yang baik untuk hari aku. Sedang aku sibuk di dapur, menuang bubur utk bekalan Qimi ke rumah asuhan, si ayah menjerit sebab pampers Qimi dah penuh. Membuang pulak dia pagi-pagi ni. Takpa. Ibu mandikan terus ye sebelum ibu ayah pergi keja. Masuk tandas, tgk mangkuk tandas terbukak. Ayahnya lupa nak tutup.
Aku pun cakap la,"Abg, lain kali tutup mangkuk tandas ni."
"Takda apa, tutup je la k."
Entah kenapa ayah dia meradang. Dikatanya aku banyak cakap. Aku ni bukan jenis yang akan diam bila tetiba kena marah tanpa sebab. Aku cakap balik,"Abg kenapa? Syg just suruh abg tutup mangkuk tandas je, kenapa yang sampai nak marah-marah mcm ni?"
Entah lah.
Kejadian seterusnya tak mampu aku cerita. Depan anak. Depan nenek. Depan ayah mertua.
Yang paling terkilan, depan anak.
Anak yang tak mengerti apa-apa. Yang ingat ibu dan ayah tgh bergurau. Kadang-kadang mengekek si anak tgk ayah yang tgh menyinga.
Ya Allah....
Sesungguhnya Allah takkan uji hambaNya yang tidak mampu diuji.
Takde org lain yang boleh faham aku. Org just mintak aku bersabar or cakap 'sudahlah' seperti aku punca segalanya.

"Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku..Jadikanlah anakku seorang anak yang baik, seorang anak yang lembut hatinya, seorang anak yang hormatkan org tuanya, seorang anak yang sentiasa berbelas kasihan sesama manusia dan seorang anak yang kuat imannya. Amin Ya Rabbalalamin."



MULA Bead roller coaster IKEA Develops fine motor skills and logical thinking.
MULA Stacking rings IKEA The stick is soft and will not injure children if they fall on it. Develops fine motor skills and logical thinking.
MULA Building beakers IKEA Durable plastic, easy to clean with water. Makes play easy to vary; build, do a puzzle, scoop water or bake sand cakes.
I bought these three toys from IKEA firstly because the colours are attractive, secondly, I like their features which develops fine motor skills and logical thinking. Its really hard these days to find an educational toy at a very reasonable price. Of course, for the stacking beaker, you have the options to choose your own DIY plastic cups, but then when this only cost you RM6.90 which will not burn a big hole in your pocket.
But maybe I introduced those two at the top too early from Haqimi's age. My MIL quite worried if he will put the stick in mouth. But then it is stated, "- The stick is soft and will not injure children if they fall on it."
And those two Stacking Rings and Bead Rollercoaster are still reasonable. For Haqimi, I provide him lots of books. Some of the books are inherited from me, because Mak loved to buy me story books, those were cheap on those days. And everytime we go out, when we enter the book shop, I will at least buy him one book. I just want him to love reading as much as I do. At least, he could find a useful activity during his free time.
How I wish I can stay at my own house some days. Living with the in laws; you just have to deal with the "openness" . And I just want my child to have their own space; to explore their creativity and interest.
Someday, Aina... Someday..

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