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Long Distance Relationship

Assalamualaikum and Hi everyone.
First of all, I have missed blogging so much. Can u imagine my last post was in 2015? 3 years ago! And within 3 years, a new baby has born. 
2017 - was a year where my husband, my kids and I started our long distance relationship. I was pregnant, heavily pregnant when we moved out from our Kepong quarters and then I have to live with my in law and my husband has to live with his too.
The first few months were tiring. I sometimes had to drive back and forth to Ipoh since I miss my kids and husband so much plus I am the one who uses the car. For your information, my husband has been transferred to Ipoh, working in the same department as my parent. So they went to work together. At first I decide to take care of Hana here in KL but then with my then condition (hypertension), we decided to let her ayah took care of her too along with Haqimi. So my husband are taking care of both my children while I am in KL.
Until the day Safiyyah was born on 8 November 2…

What happen in a year?

Hi.
It's been a year since I wrote my previous post. I do have time, I do have the ideas but when I started writing, they were all gone! 
Too many things happened in a year. Let's sum everything in one post. Okay?
I just gave birth to my second child, a beautiful baby girl on January 8th, 2015 at 8.43pm. It was on Thursday night. Thought of holding the pain much longer cause I want both my children be born on Friday. But I just can't. The second one, the pain were much more stronger. I was induced at 1.00pm and started to feel the contractions one hour later. Keep going back and forth to the toilet. At 5.00pm I had to call for any nurses or doctors to check the opening. Only 3cm. Then at 6.00pm, the pain was no longer bearable, and Alhamdulillah they took me to the LR. One minute in there feels like one hour. Sakit gila! At 7cm opening I already pushed my baby girl out and thank God I did that, because once she's out, she's already poop. Trust mother instinct, eve…

Persiapan Raya 2014

Alhamdulillah. Dah 10 hari puasa. Last year memang tak dapat puasa penuh sebab tengah sarat mengandung. Anak dalam perut pun dah start dok makan. Dengan keluar masuk hospital. Tapi Ramadhan kali ni pun apa kurangnya, pregnant jugak, walaupun baru 3 bulan, tapi terasa jugak sebab baby baru nak membentuk. I hope you're doing fine dalam tu baby. Back to cerita persiapan raya tahun ni, sangat sangat lah susah. Ada satu weekend tu, pergi la area Seksyen 7 tu, cadangnya nak cari la baju raya, masyaAllah, ramai sgt manusiaaaa. Semua dok pulun nak shopping hari tu. Sempat pi Calaqisya tapi tak dapat pun jubah sebab warna pilihan sold out. Terasa sgt buang tenaga and masa kat situ. Dengan Haqimi sejak nak jadi abang ni memang takmo berenggang langsung. Nak berkepit dengan mak dia je. So decide nak pi hari lain. Hari Rabu, kebetulan ade appointment dengan specialist, doc kasi MC. Gunakan peluang ni untuk shopping. Ye, memang suke shopping sorang. Senang. Tak payah fikir sibuk orang lain ke…

Some People...

Some people are just plain rude. They want to be respected but do not want to respect other people at all. Contoh, seorang budak, not even twelve years old yet, post a picture of her in facebook. Then suddenly 'this' type of people commented something negative, and what do you expect for the other party to reply?

Kuatkan hati ku

Hari ni, pagi tadi, bukanlah permulaan yang baik untuk hari aku. Sedang aku sibuk di dapur, menuang bubur utk bekalan Qimi ke rumah asuhan, si ayah menjerit sebab pampers Qimi dah penuh. Membuang pulak dia pagi-pagi ni. Takpa. Ibu mandikan terus ye sebelum ibu ayah pergi keja. Masuk tandas, tgk mangkuk tandas terbukak. Ayahnya lupa nak tutup. Aku pun cakap la,"Abg, lain kali tutup mangkuk tandas ni." "Kenapa?" "Takda apa, tutup je la k." Entah kenapa ayah dia meradang. Dikatanya aku banyak cakap. Aku ni bukan jenis yang akan diam bila tetiba kena marah tanpa sebab. Aku cakap balik,"Abg kenapa? Syg just suruh abg tutup mangkuk tandas je, kenapa yang sampai nak marah-marah mcm ni?" Entah lah. Kejadian seterusnya tak mampu aku cerita. Depan anak. Depan nenek. Depan ayah mertua. Yang paling terkilan, depan anak. Anak yang tak mengerti apa-apa. Yang ingat ibu dan ayah tgh bergurau. Kadang-kadang mengekek si anak tgk ayah yang tgh menyinga. Ya Allah.…

IKEA Toys

I bought these three toys from IKEA firstly because the colours are attractive, secondly, I like their features which develops fine motor skills and logical thinking. Its really hard these days to find an educational toy at a very reasonable price. Of course, for the stacking beaker, you have the options to choose your own DIY plastic cups, but then when this only cost you RM6.90 which will not burn a big hole in your pocket. But maybe I introduced those two at the top too early from Haqimi's age. My MIL quite worried if he will put the stick in mouth. But then it is stated, "-The stick is soft and will not injure children if they fall on it." And those two Stacking Rings and Bead Rollercoaster are still reasonable. For Haqimi, I provide him lots of books. Some of the books are inherited from me, because Mak loved to buy me story books, those were cheap on those days. And everytime we go out, when we enter the book shop, I will at least buy him one book. I just want him…
Selalu tanya suami,

"Abang, kalau tak kahwin dgn syg, sekarang abg buat apa agaknya eh,"

Suami jawab nak tak nak je, biasa la laki kan, mana nak layan org perempuan tanya benda mcm ni.


Seriously, bila terkenang balik, boleh menangis. Haha sebab aku ada 2 ex-bf, tapi suami aku ada 16 ex-gf. Aku couple jenis bertahun, dia jenis sekejap-sekejap. And sebenarnya kitorang mula berkawan pun masa masing-masing dah ade bf & gf. Scandal la. Dia call kadang-kadang je. Same la dgn aku pun, call bila bosan je. Call or sms. Scandal kan memang mcm tu. Takda komitmen apa-apa.

But then, after a while, aku sedar aku sebenarnya suka dia. Tapi sebab dia ni playboy, aku tak berani nak letak harapan, that's why aku bercinta dgn orang lain. To be honest, no telefon dia aku sentiasa ingat walaupun tak save dlm phone. Tak tau la kenapa.


.....sambung nanti..